Arguably, the male psyche is not as simple as they claim; Men too are complicated. They just have more control of their emotions than women do. Like women, men too have needs, understanding these needs will help you as a woman to coexist with them better. Here they are:
1-Respect
So what is it that men want? One of the things men is want respect. That means a man wants to be held in esteem and to be shown consideration and appreciation—even when he makes mistakes. He wants to be seen as a hero, especially in the eyes of his bride. He needs someone to believe in him when the odds are stacked against him. If a man doesn’t feel respected, his self esteem gets diminished, and some can even result into violence feeling if you cafindrespect them, they will take it by force. Women crave attention, men just want respect.
2-Your Smile
Do you know that your smile is fantastic? You can charm everybody with it, especially your man. Let him enjoy the warmth of your happy smile. Surely, every man wants to have an optimistic woman in his life who will always share her positive emotions with him. If a girl is happy that means she has a loving and caring boy. By showing your happiness to your guy you’ll give him an opportunity to understand how good he is. Remember that such small thing like your smile contributes greatly to your relationship with the one you love.
3-Space
Research showed that male and female desire is a case of independence and intimacy. With the male being primarily drawn towards independence and the feminine toward intimacy. A man likes his space every once in a while, he needs to know that he is still in control and you haven't changed his masculinity. Be rest assured, suffocating a man (either by failing to allow him free time or with overly jealous behaviour) is the fastest way to end a relationship. Men need breathing room in a relationship. We need time for our hobbies, time with our friends, and time to toil away on our projects to feel fulfilled.
So let him roam. Let him breathe. Leave him to his own devices. A man will be that much happier for you to receive him when he returns, knowing that you trust both him and the strength of your bond enough to let him have his space.
4-Security
Men and women are both attracted to certainty in a relationship. Most men tend to hide how they truly feel about a woman because they fear it shows their vulnerability which that lady may take advantage of. The more a man feels like his partner is in it for the long haul, the more ready and able he is to be able to open up to her.
But security goes deeper than just the fact that you won’t leave him. The security that he feels ties back in to several of these points. He feels secure in knowing that you approve of him and where he is in his career. He feels secure and loved when you touch him non-sexually throughout the day. He feels secure when he is allowed to have his guys’ nights away from you and you don’t feel the need to call or text him every half hour to check in.
And he feels secure with a partner who takes steps to love him in the way that he most needs.
5-Acceptance
Men NEED to feel that regardless of their shortcomings, you will still love them anyways. When we stack the dishes in the dishwasher like a five year-old, say the wrong thing in front of your friends, litters his clothes round the house, get too logical, forget something you’ve said a thousand times, that you love us anyways. Because inside every man is a boy who forgets he’s a man sometimes. And every boy gets into things, not because he’s bad but because he’s got a curious mind and a short attention span.
Unconditional support from their women is what will snap them out of their boyish behavior and injecusthem with a desire to be a stronger man. Only when you accept him for who he is, will he want to become someone better.
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